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		<title>By: Pam</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 04 Oct 2009 15:30:11 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I live in SWFL as well - condo MIGHT be worth $75k and we paid $250 in Jan 2005. After sticking my head in the sand for a long time, I&#039;ve decided it is better in the long run to have bad credit and cash in the bank.  If we rented for 5 years, we would easily have $50k in the bank (or under the mattress!) rather than throwing it into a black hole.  Can we afford to stay? Yes. Ethically, should we stay? Maybe... but long term, it is NOT what is best for our family.  To all the people saying that people in upsidedown mortgages should stick it out no matter what - you&#039;re not in our situation are you??  Easy to pass judgment when you&#039;re not paying through the nose for a losing investment.  Goodbye 2B, 2B... I&#039;ve already lost enough on you!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I live in SWFL as well &#8211; condo MIGHT be worth $75k and we paid $250 in Jan 2005. After sticking my head in the sand for a long time, I&#8217;ve decided it is better in the long run to have bad credit and cash in the bank.  If we rented for 5 years, we would easily have $50k in the bank (or under the mattress!) rather than throwing it into a black hole.  Can we afford to stay? Yes. Ethically, should we stay? Maybe&#8230; but long term, it is NOT what is best for our family.  To all the people saying that people in upsidedown mortgages should stick it out no matter what &#8211; you&#8217;re not in our situation are you??  Easy to pass judgment when you&#8217;re not paying through the nose for a losing investment.  Goodbye 2B, 2B&#8230; I&#8217;ve already lost enough on you!</p>
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		<title>By: Iryn</title>
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		<dc:creator>Iryn</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 06 Sep 2009 18:37:54 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>We are upside down on our mortgage but can afford to pay. Just like the person that started this thread, the reason we can pay is because we are not extravagant and have not decorated and equipped the house like we would have loved, no dream vacations, home cooked meals everyday - aka living within our means or being responsible. But I can&#039;t help noticing the quality of these foreclosed homes. These folks lived it up! And probably continue to to do as they would abandon the homes and rent another well decked home somewhere else and still continue to live bloated lives.

 What hacks me off is that our Government is enabling such practices by extending help to such. There is no help for us because we can afford to pay our mortgage - no credit to some of the sacrifices that we have to make daily in order to continue to afford our monthly payments!

I think the banks, government need to take a long hard look at those who are trully committed to upholding the economy and ethics by paying their mortgages despite the loss of equity and communicate a big THANK YOU! Extend a temporary 3-5yr loan modification for ALL on record without them having to call and submit all kinds of paperwork and proof of this or that. If they did that on their own, this will go a long way to appease those that are at the verge of walking away.
We can still salvage whatever is left of this great economy.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>We are upside down on our mortgage but can afford to pay. Just like the person that started this thread, the reason we can pay is because we are not extravagant and have not decorated and equipped the house like we would have loved, no dream vacations, home cooked meals everyday &#8211; aka living within our means or being responsible. But I can&#8217;t help noticing the quality of these foreclosed homes. These folks lived it up! And probably continue to to do as they would abandon the homes and rent another well decked home somewhere else and still continue to live bloated lives.</p>
<p> What hacks me off is that our Government is enabling such practices by extending help to such. There is no help for us because we can afford to pay our mortgage &#8211; no credit to some of the sacrifices that we have to make daily in order to continue to afford our monthly payments!</p>
<p>I think the banks, government need to take a long hard look at those who are trully committed to upholding the economy and ethics by paying their mortgages despite the loss of equity and communicate a big THANK YOU! Extend a temporary 3-5yr loan modification for ALL on record without them having to call and submit all kinds of paperwork and proof of this or that. If they did that on their own, this will go a long way to appease those that are at the verge of walking away.<br />
We can still salvage whatever is left of this great economy.</p>
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		<title>By: DS</title>
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		<dc:creator>DS</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 21 Jul 2009 20:58:19 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I&#039;d sure like to weigh in on this discussion to express my thoughts on how things are unfolding with these upside-down mortgages.

Situation #1
Yes, there are those who engaged in the game of flipping and were caught with upside down mortgages and are now paying the price. There are also those who bought too much house for their budget and got brought down by the Taxes and rising costs. However, there are traditional investors that put their money into the RE market banking on long-term investments to secure their future and they are also paying one heck of a price for calculated risk. In this situation one must, of course, weigh in the balances the ups and downs of the RE market which is perfectly healthy. However, what has happened here in the US is that anyone investing here since early 2004 has seen any chances of even breaking even swept away for many decades and maybe even permanently.

Why is this the case? Financial institutions have been given carte blanche to do as they please with our deposits and “creative” financing and have caused, not only the collapse of RE, but of the entire Financial system. This has been REAL Voodoo economics at it’s best. Their cavalier attitudes toward managing the Financial well-being of this Country has resulted in this disaster and, yes, they have been bailed out, in some cases twice! Why???? Where is the help for the consumer (investor)? Nowhere! The investors mentioned above did not have to invest their life savings in our Country to boost our economy but they did. They could have gone somewhere else.

The irresponsible notion that I have heard from so many Politicians and others this year that “RE investors are some kind of demonic entities” is pure rubbish! Investing in Real estate has a positive ripple effect on entire communities as anyone with a shred of economic education fully well understands. Lenders should be held accountable for sucking in unsuspecting investors with predatory lending practices. These are the same demons that are sending your 16 year old Credit Card offers in the mail that are laden with traps that they are currently unaware of. I am entirely against the suggestion that investors are bad people. If these Banks and large Corporations are the Engines that drive the economy as some in high positions have suggested do not forget that WE (consumer/investor) are the Oil that runs that Engine. To simply write off the Consumer is insane and the Economy will NEVER recover without oil in the engine.

Situation #2
I have an Associate who bought a 1 Bedroom, 1 Bath Condo in Miami in 2004, actually downgrading from a 2Br, 1Ba that he had sold in California that same year. He bought the 1Br because he was single and it suited the needs for one person, paying $100,000 less than he sold the condo in CA for. By definition, this could not have been considered an investment as he would either have moved upscale with his equity or bought two for the price of one.

This 1Br was his home for three years. He then got married to a Lady with one child in 2007. Obviously, the 700 sq ft. 1Br was insufficient for 3 people therefore he investigated the possibility of selling it and buying a larger unit. Unfortunately, the Property was now worth half the mortgage so he was unable to sell. Alternatively, it was necessary for him to rent a home. Due to the terms of a second mortgage on the Condo he was not technically allowed to rent the 1BR out, therefore, he was stuck with a monthly rent payment plus servicing a value-less mortgage and inflated Taxes based on the mortgage not the value of the home. What to do? Prior to depleting all of his savings toward the end of 2008 he reached out to the Lender for assistance via a “Loan Modification”. One would think that with all the bailing out going on with Lenders and the like, that this guy could get some help. He didn’t and so was unable to continue paying the mortgage. Now, his credit has been destroyed and he is looking at foreclosure since the Lender is dragging their feet, providing (frankly) the most embarrassing excuses, mixing up the paperwork of different Mortgage holders and generally acting like Abbott and Costello. Again, he feels that he is being treated like a Demonic investor who is getting what he deserved for buying the place in the first place and has no representation in the “System”. What do people like this do especially when seeing real criminals, the Banks, get bailed out? I personally believe that the Banks (Lenders) should be held accountable in this entire process. Banks should be bailed out ONLY on the condition that every one of their Clients be given fair and equitable solutions to the problems that Lenders created in the FIRST PLACE.

We’re not looking to avoid paying mortgages, we just need to see the values of those mortgages adjusted to reflect the new worth brought on by a RE collapse caused by these very Lenders. As Joe Consumer, I will NEVER have faith in this Country’s Banking system again. I’ve seen the pattern of unethical behavior demonstrated since the 80’s with the S&amp;L debacle and it simply has taken a new shape in some other sector as time goes by. I’ll find some place to lock my money away so that I can invest abroad in Real Estate some day in the future, never here! There are way too many thieves in high places in this country making billions through real uncalculated risk taking. Nobody does anything but slap their hands while they have their billions well protected. I have nothing against wealthy people only those that stole other people’s hard earned money.

Long live the economy nurturing Investor and those who simply seek the American Dream!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;d sure like to weigh in on this discussion to express my thoughts on how things are unfolding with these upside-down mortgages.</p>
<p>Situation #1<br />
Yes, there are those who engaged in the game of flipping and were caught with upside down mortgages and are now paying the price. There are also those who bought too much house for their budget and got brought down by the Taxes and rising costs. However, there are traditional investors that put their money into the RE market banking on long-term investments to secure their future and they are also paying one heck of a price for calculated risk. In this situation one must, of course, weigh in the balances the ups and downs of the RE market which is perfectly healthy. However, what has happened here in the US is that anyone investing here since early 2004 has seen any chances of even breaking even swept away for many decades and maybe even permanently.</p>
<p>Why is this the case? Financial institutions have been given carte blanche to do as they please with our deposits and “creative” financing and have caused, not only the collapse of RE, but of the entire Financial system. This has been REAL Voodoo economics at it’s best. Their cavalier attitudes toward managing the Financial well-being of this Country has resulted in this disaster and, yes, they have been bailed out, in some cases twice! Why???? Where is the help for the consumer (investor)? Nowhere! The investors mentioned above did not have to invest their life savings in our Country to boost our economy but they did. They could have gone somewhere else.</p>
<p>The irresponsible notion that I have heard from so many Politicians and others this year that “RE investors are some kind of demonic entities” is pure rubbish! Investing in Real estate has a positive ripple effect on entire communities as anyone with a shred of economic education fully well understands. Lenders should be held accountable for sucking in unsuspecting investors with predatory lending practices. These are the same demons that are sending your 16 year old Credit Card offers in the mail that are laden with traps that they are currently unaware of. I am entirely against the suggestion that investors are bad people. If these Banks and large Corporations are the Engines that drive the economy as some in high positions have suggested do not forget that WE (consumer/investor) are the Oil that runs that Engine. To simply write off the Consumer is insane and the Economy will NEVER recover without oil in the engine.</p>
<p>Situation #2<br />
I have an Associate who bought a 1 Bedroom, 1 Bath Condo in Miami in 2004, actually downgrading from a 2Br, 1Ba that he had sold in California that same year. He bought the 1Br because he was single and it suited the needs for one person, paying $100,000 less than he sold the condo in CA for. By definition, this could not have been considered an investment as he would either have moved upscale with his equity or bought two for the price of one.</p>
<p>This 1Br was his home for three years. He then got married to a Lady with one child in 2007. Obviously, the 700 sq ft. 1Br was insufficient for 3 people therefore he investigated the possibility of selling it and buying a larger unit. Unfortunately, the Property was now worth half the mortgage so he was unable to sell. Alternatively, it was necessary for him to rent a home. Due to the terms of a second mortgage on the Condo he was not technically allowed to rent the 1BR out, therefore, he was stuck with a monthly rent payment plus servicing a value-less mortgage and inflated Taxes based on the mortgage not the value of the home. What to do? Prior to depleting all of his savings toward the end of 2008 he reached out to the Lender for assistance via a “Loan Modification”. One would think that with all the bailing out going on with Lenders and the like, that this guy could get some help. He didn’t and so was unable to continue paying the mortgage. Now, his credit has been destroyed and he is looking at foreclosure since the Lender is dragging their feet, providing (frankly) the most embarrassing excuses, mixing up the paperwork of different Mortgage holders and generally acting like Abbott and Costello. Again, he feels that he is being treated like a Demonic investor who is getting what he deserved for buying the place in the first place and has no representation in the “System”. What do people like this do especially when seeing real criminals, the Banks, get bailed out? I personally believe that the Banks (Lenders) should be held accountable in this entire process. Banks should be bailed out ONLY on the condition that every one of their Clients be given fair and equitable solutions to the problems that Lenders created in the FIRST PLACE.</p>
<p>We’re not looking to avoid paying mortgages, we just need to see the values of those mortgages adjusted to reflect the new worth brought on by a RE collapse caused by these very Lenders. As Joe Consumer, I will NEVER have faith in this Country’s Banking system again. I’ve seen the pattern of unethical behavior demonstrated since the 80’s with the S&amp;L debacle and it simply has taken a new shape in some other sector as time goes by. I’ll find some place to lock my money away so that I can invest abroad in Real Estate some day in the future, never here! There are way too many thieves in high places in this country making billions through real uncalculated risk taking. Nobody does anything but slap their hands while they have their billions well protected. I have nothing against wealthy people only those that stole other people’s hard earned money.</p>
<p>Long live the economy nurturing Investor and those who simply seek the American Dream!</p>
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		<title>By: HH</title>
		<link>http://www.moneyunder30.com/young-upside-down-mortgage/comment-page-1#comment-2489</link>
		<dc:creator>HH</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 22 Jun 2009 16:00:17 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Besides. If you want to do the right thing, stay and keep paying; you are looking at probably 15-20 years (assuming your house value increases by 7% / year) to make the equity back on your house.
Are you ready to spend the next 20 years paying for something that is not worth what you owe?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Besides. If you want to do the right thing, stay and keep paying; you are looking at probably 15-20 years (assuming your house value increases by 7% / year) to make the equity back on your house.<br />
Are you ready to spend the next 20 years paying for something that is not worth what you owe?</p>
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		<title>By: HH</title>
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		<dc:creator>HH</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 22 Jun 2009 15:50:40 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Walk away is simply a financial move. Mortgage for $240,000 and house worth $100,000. Monthly payment more than living in a house in a much better area and with a pool in the back.
The bad decision was to buy in 2005 like many other did. The punishment for walking away is simply the bad credit for 7 years; i believe this is punishment enough.
But again, is makes sense financially to walk away, live in a better place and save a few hundred dollars a month.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Walk away is simply a financial move. Mortgage for $240,000 and house worth $100,000. Monthly payment more than living in a house in a much better area and with a pool in the back.<br />
The bad decision was to buy in 2005 like many other did. The punishment for walking away is simply the bad credit for 7 years; i believe this is punishment enough.<br />
But again, is makes sense financially to walk away, live in a better place and save a few hundred dollars a month.</p>
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		<title>By: Sara</title>
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		<dc:creator>Sara</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 25 May 2009 19:45:03 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Sheri,

First of all, you sound very educated and mature.

To clarify, because I&#039;m not sure you understood what I was talking about in my post, I was referring to people who CAN afford to pay their mortgages, and are CHOOSING to walk away from them- with no sense of personal responsibility whatsoever (like the person in the original post). I believe this because if the government does bail out people who are in foreclosure, it is my tax dollars (and probably my childrens!) And, I don&#039;t feel like I should have to pay for someone&#039;s problem when they can afford to pay for it themselves.

Second of all, if a bank gave you a loan you did not qualify for, it is the fault of both parties. There is definite predatory lending out there, but I think people needed to take personal responsibility too. My husband and I were approved a $400,000 mortgage, and I basically laughed in the lender&#039;s face- because there was no WAY we could truly afford that! I think some people just went along with what banks told them they could afford, without even looking at their true budget or anything, and I really do not have much sympathy for those people - its not rocket science! It&#039;s elementary math - Income minus expenses! (Although I admit, I may be naive to how clueless people are when managing money - common sense is not always common! And- some people may have known, but were just greedy and went ahead with the loan anyway!) I&#039;m certainly not saying banks are completely innocent, and they certaintly deserve some of the hit - but in my OPINION, they deserve the hit from people who really couldn&#039;t afford their mortgages, not the people who can afford their mortgages and are walking away.

The reason being, there is no insurance policy on the economy! The the value of a person&#039;s house is not guaranteed to rise, or even to stay the same - no more than an investment in the stock market. As a country, we have been so fortunate to see home values rise - if not skyrocket - over our lifetimes, but that does not mean we are entitled to it and deserve to be free from the risk of an investment that did not go as we planned. Especially when many people were not smart about their investments in the first place.

HOWEVER, I wholeheartedly agree there are people out there who did everything right, and ended up getting laid off and have HAD to foreclose on their houses; and have had no choice. I know many of these people and I know how hard it is for them to make ends meet. In those cases, it mostly just unfortunate timing or bad luck. These people, I definitely feel sympathy for - I just believe there is a huge difference between the two situations.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Sheri,</p>
<p>First of all, you sound very educated and mature.</p>
<p>To clarify, because I&#8217;m not sure you understood what I was talking about in my post, I was referring to people who CAN afford to pay their mortgages, and are CHOOSING to walk away from them- with no sense of personal responsibility whatsoever (like the person in the original post). I believe this because if the government does bail out people who are in foreclosure, it is my tax dollars (and probably my childrens!) And, I don&#8217;t feel like I should have to pay for someone&#8217;s problem when they can afford to pay for it themselves.</p>
<p>Second of all, if a bank gave you a loan you did not qualify for, it is the fault of both parties. There is definite predatory lending out there, but I think people needed to take personal responsibility too. My husband and I were approved a $400,000 mortgage, and I basically laughed in the lender&#8217;s face- because there was no WAY we could truly afford that! I think some people just went along with what banks told them they could afford, without even looking at their true budget or anything, and I really do not have much sympathy for those people &#8211; its not rocket science! It&#8217;s elementary math &#8211; Income minus expenses! (Although I admit, I may be naive to how clueless people are when managing money &#8211; common sense is not always common! And- some people may have known, but were just greedy and went ahead with the loan anyway!) I&#8217;m certainly not saying banks are completely innocent, and they certaintly deserve some of the hit &#8211; but in my OPINION, they deserve the hit from people who really couldn&#8217;t afford their mortgages, not the people who can afford their mortgages and are walking away.</p>
<p>The reason being, there is no insurance policy on the economy! The the value of a person&#8217;s house is not guaranteed to rise, or even to stay the same &#8211; no more than an investment in the stock market. As a country, we have been so fortunate to see home values rise &#8211; if not skyrocket &#8211; over our lifetimes, but that does not mean we are entitled to it and deserve to be free from the risk of an investment that did not go as we planned. Especially when many people were not smart about their investments in the first place.</p>
<p>HOWEVER, I wholeheartedly agree there are people out there who did everything right, and ended up getting laid off and have HAD to foreclose on their houses; and have had no choice. I know many of these people and I know how hard it is for them to make ends meet. In those cases, it mostly just unfortunate timing or bad luck. These people, I definitely feel sympathy for &#8211; I just believe there is a huge difference between the two situations.</p>
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		<title>By: Sheri</title>
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		<dc:creator>Sheri</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 25 May 2009 02:32:33 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>If you can afford to pay your mortgage and have not had a pay cut i say stay there to ride it out for awhile. You will have to pay rent anyway. I am in the same situation that this guy and also live in Florida and have perfect credit that i worked hard to keep. It is  the banks and Government are not doing anything to help us out which in my opinion i think that their of course should be rules but if you brought in the prime market they should be re-adjusting your mortgage to what your house is worth now. I mean come on you go in foreclosure and they are selling these places for $100,000 or more less then what we paid for. What is the difference in working with the owners now? Greed !!!  I brought my place for $200,000 and they are selling for $60,000 !! We are not getting help and greed is what got us in this place and greed is living on thru the Government and the banks !! I was laid off and thankfully got another job but had to take a dramatic pay cut now i cannot afford my place. It is sad but they don&#039;t care about anyone other them themselves. Yes the bank can do a deficiency judgment just like the other comment i read but then you would have to go bankrupt !! The nightmare does not end and unfortunately they are not making this easy for people in such a bad time. For the comment Sara made i say to her get a life !! You have no idea what you are talking about. The banks gave out loans that people did not have to qualify for !! HELLO THEY HAD JOBS AND COULD PAY !! People are getting laid off left and right so with your ignorant opinions SARA  try to think before you right because you sound stupid !!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>If you can afford to pay your mortgage and have not had a pay cut i say stay there to ride it out for awhile. You will have to pay rent anyway. I am in the same situation that this guy and also live in Florida and have perfect credit that i worked hard to keep. It is  the banks and Government are not doing anything to help us out which in my opinion i think that their of course should be rules but if you brought in the prime market they should be re-adjusting your mortgage to what your house is worth now. I mean come on you go in foreclosure and they are selling these places for $100,000 or more less then what we paid for. What is the difference in working with the owners now? Greed !!!  I brought my place for $200,000 and they are selling for $60,000 !! We are not getting help and greed is what got us in this place and greed is living on thru the Government and the banks !! I was laid off and thankfully got another job but had to take a dramatic pay cut now i cannot afford my place. It is sad but they don&#8217;t care about anyone other them themselves. Yes the bank can do a deficiency judgment just like the other comment i read but then you would have to go bankrupt !! The nightmare does not end and unfortunately they are not making this easy for people in such a bad time. For the comment Sara made i say to her get a life !! You have no idea what you are talking about. The banks gave out loans that people did not have to qualify for !! HELLO THEY HAD JOBS AND COULD PAY !! People are getting laid off left and right so with your ignorant opinions SARA  try to think before you right because you sound stupid !!</p>
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		<title>By: AK</title>
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		<dc:creator>AK</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 24 May 2009 19:21:08 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Same boat.  My husband&#039;s section at work is closing so he had to find employment before we did foreclose on our home.  We are down $100k and paying a mortgage on this home throwing our money away.  He has had to accept employment in another state. Faced with our 2 young daughters living without their father and me without a husband until we can unload this house.  We can rent at $1200/month below our mortgage payment.  My husband holds a tope secret security clearance and cannot take a beating on his credit report...or he will lose his job.  It is not fair at all, but we live without my husband now while we are responsible and doing the right thing.  We will rent at a loss if we should find a decent person to rent to;  however, we will have to pay their HOA fees and so forth and take a bigger loss.  We will have to rent close to him and try to make it work...Everyone is in the same boat...Allowing a foreclosure will worsen our economy because everyone is here with you.  I am not saying it is fair or even right. I think you should do what you feel is best for your situation because there is no &quot;right&quot; answer.  This just &quot;sucks.&quot;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Same boat.  My husband&#8217;s section at work is closing so he had to find employment before we did foreclose on our home.  We are down $100k and paying a mortgage on this home throwing our money away.  He has had to accept employment in another state. Faced with our 2 young daughters living without their father and me without a husband until we can unload this house.  We can rent at $1200/month below our mortgage payment.  My husband holds a tope secret security clearance and cannot take a beating on his credit report&#8230;or he will lose his job.  It is not fair at all, but we live without my husband now while we are responsible and doing the right thing.  We will rent at a loss if we should find a decent person to rent to;  however, we will have to pay their HOA fees and so forth and take a bigger loss.  We will have to rent close to him and try to make it work&#8230;Everyone is in the same boat&#8230;Allowing a foreclosure will worsen our economy because everyone is here with you.  I am not saying it is fair or even right. I think you should do what you feel is best for your situation because there is no &#8220;right&#8221; answer.  This just &#8220;sucks.&#8221;</p>
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		<title>By: Michael B</title>
		<link>http://www.moneyunder30.com/young-upside-down-mortgage/comment-page-1#comment-2491</link>
		<dc:creator>Michael B</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 24 May 2009 15:51:19 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>We are over 50 years old, not under 30, but it is the same for us in some respects. The fact is we need to live somewhere and as we make each mortgage payment the loan principal is reduced. Fortunatly, we do not need to realize the current paper loss.

We are both working and there is not much to invest in now ...so we are paying down our debt instead. The 401K&#039;s are not in the stock market and we consider the employers match (we still have that, for now) as our &quot;yield&quot;. I know....silly isn&#039;t it...but there is nothing safe to invest in anymore that yields anything.

The world seems to be getting harder and harder for younger folks to survive in...and the recent political commitments seem daunting to us for future generations....

Michael &amp; Marlene</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>We are over 50 years old, not under 30, but it is the same for us in some respects. The fact is we need to live somewhere and as we make each mortgage payment the loan principal is reduced. Fortunatly, we do not need to realize the current paper loss.</p>
<p>We are both working and there is not much to invest in now &#8230;so we are paying down our debt instead. The 401K&#8217;s are not in the stock market and we consider the employers match (we still have that, for now) as our &#8220;yield&#8221;. I know&#8230;.silly isn&#8217;t it&#8230;but there is nothing safe to invest in anymore that yields anything.</p>
<p>The world seems to be getting harder and harder for younger folks to survive in&#8230;and the recent political commitments seem daunting to us for future generations&#8230;.</p>
<p>Michael &amp; Marlene</p>
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		<title>By: AC</title>
		<link>http://www.moneyunder30.com/young-upside-down-mortgage/comment-page-1#comment-2478</link>
		<dc:creator>AC</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 12 May 2009 21:28:11 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Regarding the ethics of walking away, I have never paid a late bill in my life, live within my means, have a credit score in the 800&#039;s, and though I cannot believe I am actually saying this, I am walking away.  My husbands job moved to another state, but our home, bought in 2005, fixed rate, is down $100K in value, not even close to being rentable at a price to cover the mortgage.  We were fortunate to have a guaranteed cash buy-out offer as part of my husband&#039;s relocation benefit, however only at FMV which meant a short sale.  We spent 8 months apart and thousands in continuing the mortgage, and a couple thousand more on repairs/inspections to get the offer on the table.  We began working with the lender fall of 08, however in the end (May of 09), all of our efforts meant absolutely nothing because the lender spent so many months &quot;processing&quot; the offer, it finally expired.  We tried daily to get it through but could not get complete answers, information, directions, or even hardly returns to our calls/emails. Absolutely no regard was given to the fact we spent a ton of time and money to avoid foreclosure.  So now have no choice but to walk, however, I no longer question those who see this coming and choose to walk away in advance.  Had we done the same, we would be $20K ahead and probably be almost done with foreclosure process and moving on.  Putting everything on the line to avoid foreclosure was not the smarter financial route, and ethically, it made no difference whatsoever to the lender.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Regarding the ethics of walking away, I have never paid a late bill in my life, live within my means, have a credit score in the 800&#8217;s, and though I cannot believe I am actually saying this, I am walking away.  My husbands job moved to another state, but our home, bought in 2005, fixed rate, is down $100K in value, not even close to being rentable at a price to cover the mortgage.  We were fortunate to have a guaranteed cash buy-out offer as part of my husband&#8217;s relocation benefit, however only at FMV which meant a short sale.  We spent 8 months apart and thousands in continuing the mortgage, and a couple thousand more on repairs/inspections to get the offer on the table.  We began working with the lender fall of 08, however in the end (May of 09), all of our efforts meant absolutely nothing because the lender spent so many months &#8220;processing&#8221; the offer, it finally expired.  We tried daily to get it through but could not get complete answers, information, directions, or even hardly returns to our calls/emails. Absolutely no regard was given to the fact we spent a ton of time and money to avoid foreclosure.  So now have no choice but to walk, however, I no longer question those who see this coming and choose to walk away in advance.  Had we done the same, we would be $20K ahead and probably be almost done with foreclosure process and moving on.  Putting everything on the line to avoid foreclosure was not the smarter financial route, and ethically, it made no difference whatsoever to the lender.</p>
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